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| Aunt Becky |
Sarah Graham Palmer
Young was a thirty-two-year-old widow from Ithaca, New York, when she threw
herself into the war. After her brothers enlisted, she couldn’t stay home
sewing bandages. She kissed her two little girls goodbye, packed a carpetbag,
and boarded a southbound train in 1862.
She didn’t
have any orders, a uniform, or a promise of pay. She just walked into the camp
of the 109th New York Volunteers and asked where the sick were. Someone pointed
to a tent thick with blood and fever. She went in and stayed.
The soldiers
called her “Mother.” She snapped, “I’m not that old.” They laughed and called
her “Aunt Becky.” Within weeks, she was part of the place. She worked nights,
argued with surgeons, and gave her coffee to men who couldn’t lift their heads.
She joked with the men when she could, cursed under her breath when supplies
ran short, and once told a colonel, “Sir, if you’d been as useful with a needle
as you are with that sword, these boys might’ve had decent bandages by now.”
She wasn’t
trained. No woman was. She learned by doing—pressing on wounds, wrapping
stumps, sitting beside the ones who wouldn’t make it till morning. “I did not
go to make history,” she said, “but to serve.”
Once, near
Fredericksburg, she walked six miles through sleet to get rations for her
hospital tent. The commissary officer tried to turn her away. She grabbed the
wagon reins and drove off before he could stop her. “If you want your mules,”
she told him, “come find me at the hospital.”